Richa Mehra

  LOVE - A strong and deep affection for someone.           The fact is that feeling is constant and remains the same. The only difference which you might feel is the way to express the Love. In early years of a relationship, partners express their love through words. They say their feeling as clear as water in the sea. But the more years of your relationship or marriage go down, the less words of love come out. Fortunately, exceptions are always there.           Thus, never judge your partner. It happens because life runs along with the changes and we run with the life along with the acceptance those changes. Priorities change. Persons change.           Well, they say," pata hi nahi chala "tumhare sath itni jaldi itne saal nikal gaye". But I feel different. " mujhe to lagta hai ki na jaane kitne saalo se hum sath hain".             It was 2016, when I met ...

Dear Tejal,                   Happy Birthday my girl. "We "are 3 !!! yaeeeeee 😄                   As time passes and you continue to grow, so do we and the love in us.                   Undoubtedly, the last three years were full of joy and your firsts.  Now we are all waiting for the time when your sweet words will reach our ears. You met your milestones later than the other babies. People say that consult the Doctor but I know that every child is different and special. You are active and that's a reason enough not to worry. You are only able to call the names of relationships, some simple words and the most interesting word is "Pa" which means Park and the swing ..😂 Your actions to make us understand your words are unbeatable. You are super cute my little Radha.                     You must ...

I can’t keep calm because it’s my birthday, However, various things are left to be learned in the wiser way.  I am a girl of December, May God bless me and fill my tumbler. Because birthdays are for celebrating the blessings you get, ..from the experiences, life lessons and people you met.  My mother says, do not blow out the candle and cut the cake, ..light a lamp ( दीपक   ) instead to maintain the positivity you make. I grew up as I became a mother, But sometimes, I behave like a clutter. Now I am in my thirties, Hence, I started focusing only on my priorities. I am not seeking an expensive gift, ..but I am trying to achieve the confidence which makes me lift. I have been looking for my best version, Is there any shortcut for this conversion? I do Judge myself to see if I am a better person than I was yesterday, Trying to obtain the tenacity to make personal improvements day by day.   Happy Birthday to ME 😄

Dear Tejal (aka Radha & Piya),                    I want your birthday to be a celebration of your life. Not only with cake cuttings but with a little extra effort. I have decided to write a letter to you. I feel that it seems the best way to portray YOU to you. Of course, there are so many videos and photos flooding my phone but "reading a letter" is another happy place.                      Wish you a happy 2nd birthday my heartbeat. You have completed another year of tininess. This year was very special for me because you met your most awaited milestone- The Walking. Most of the children, even younger than you, usually reached this milestone in between 10 to 15 months but you girl, you took 19 and half months to reach there. But that was worth waiting for. I just loved your penguin walk. I beautifully captured those moments. I am sure you will love it and thank me later. ...

  I am asked by inner self, “What’s your New Year Resolution ?” I just nod my head and do wonder,  Let me think of the resolutions that are older. She laughed and told me to leave them, For setting up the new one and be a gem. I said I just want to be resilient, Wiser and more confident. Past year has taught me to not be an open book, It’s always better to be an aloof like a secret cook.  There is a lack of coordination between my mind and mouth, My Words come out totally different like the directions of North and South. I often do overthinking and 3 AM talks, It’s normal but only when done like the common walks. I wanna gain more confidence, And show others my reactions but with the extra sense. I am a pragmatic person but sometimes gets irritated, Yes , yes I know that it’s erroneous and frustrated. I wanna tick ✔️ all my bucket list, Life should be fascinating but not with the twist. I will make sure to have the clear words, And learn all the fruitful lessons like the ...

When a choice turns into a mandatory thing:                                                                    You know, the greatest happiness is living your life the way you desire. I feel happiest when I dress up as I want. But women in India are expected to live in obeying all the illogical regulations. I often hear these phrases and I hate them - "Beta, you should wear a headscarf in front of elders, you are married", "Where are your symbols of marriage (Bindi, bangles, vermilion, anklets) ?"  . .Uff ! .....                                                                                        ...

ME: Hey Siri! What is the meaning of an Angel? SIRI: An Angel means, a spiritual being believed to act as       an attendant, agent or messenger of God       represented in human form.    .    .    Wait wait, did you just describe my husband?     Yes, he is MY angel. We met when I was stuck in a swamp and the funny part was that I didn’t know this. Destiny made us meet and what would I be doing if God hadn’t sent him?     Phases that we faced were terrible but here we are, celebrating our happily lived 3 years of marriage. So, in honour of our 3rd anniversary, I am portraying to you a “couple of things” about us.       Most people accept and love their partner after watching the positive side but HE loved and accepted me regardless of my flaws and my worst behaviour towards him. He never gave up on me. Otherwise, it is too hard to handle me sometimes.        ...